We all have an attitude. We carry it with us everywhere we go. It is a culmination of our life experiences mixed with present circumstances and flavored with our mood and thought. If someone tells us that we “have” an attitude, it usually refers to a negative attitude. Nevertheless, we always have an attitude. I hope that yours is usually positive.
We don’t always realize how much our attitude affects others and even the way things come to us. If we act negatively all the time, it brings those around us down. We don’t get the positive outcomes that we hope for. A negative attitude will even feed on itself, which is where we get the phase that misery loves company. If we have a positive attitude, it lifts everyone up, or at least annoys them. I am all for annoying the naysayer. They always seem to think I am up to something.
When I do find myself feeling down or turning negative, I try to examine my way of thinking. Just putting a different spin on things can help a great deal. If I am doing a task that I really dislike, I think about what positive things will come out of my completing the task. We can defeat negative feelings by re-thinking the situation.
I often think of the grandmotherly advice of counting your blessings. We all have things for which to be thankful. When we place too much value on things that we don’t have, we sometimes forget to value the things that we already have.
Buddha said, “Let us rise up and be thankful, for if we didn’t learn a lot today, at least we learned a little, and if we didn’t learn a little, at least we didn’t get sick, and if we got sick, at least we didn’t die; so, let us all be thankful.”
Having a great attitude will serve us well. When we think and act as if we have abundance, it will surely come our way. When you are the customer, who do you want to serve you? Do you want to be served by the happy, smiling, energetic employee or the grumpy, grumbling employee who finds you an interruption in an already unpleasant life? You would probably choose the cheerful employee, and so would I. I might try to cheer up the grumpy one if I could or at least annoy him or her with a cheerful smile and heartfelt gratitude.
Remember that attitude matters. It matters to those around you and it should matter to you. It reflects who and what you are inside and I know that you are a wonderful person. Who are you to deny such a gift from the rest of the world? Thank you for being you.
Take care, stay well, and be safe.